Monday, October 26, 2026

The storm around the island

I am still rather amazed that we carved out time for that trip to Kaua'i. Realizing rather late in the game that we had to have Rick signed up for Medicare before we left, we scrambled to get that done, and then when we got back, I had to finish my own enrollment. That took hours, and the paperwork it has generated – and continues to generate – is mind-boggling.

The day before we left, Poppy and I competed in an agility trial (no, I'm not crazy; I entered it before our our trip was planned). Three Qs, one of them also a blue ribbon run; my girl continues to do me proud.
Since getting back, my workload has mushroomed (think nuclear 😳). Along with the usual catch-up one faces upon returning from a trip, Rick's secretary has taken numerous days and part-days off for medical and family stuff, most of them unscheduled, and I'm the 'fall girl.' One of my few remaining graphics clients contacted me about a job that I wasn't going to refuse. And my fiduciary boss has been out of the country for the second half of October, so I've had extra responsibilities there.

Tasks at home have been looming, too. I invited a Ravelry member to stay with us when she comes for OFFF, and then pushed up against the nearly immovable twin walls of resistant men whose stuff filled the guest quarters. They have now mostly cleared it that so I can clean and prep the space – I would have done that yesterday but had to REclean the great room after Rick blew fireplace ash all over it with the shop vac while trying to prep our wood-burner for the first fire of the year.🙄

Yes, it is that season again; the weather has turned cool and wet (just in time for our visitor). I haven't taken much in the way of fall foliage photographs; I seem to always be looking skyward these days. Inspiration? Distraction? Probably the latter. Because overlaying all the work and time constrains is the heavy emotional load of watching my big red goober, Lance, decline precipitously. He appears to have DSLD, a progressive, incurable breakdown of suspensory ligaments. He is uncomfortable in spite of drugs and is losing weight; I'm afraid the handwriting is on the wall and I'm slogging through each day with an already broken heart and ready tears. Such is the price of stewardship, and love.
That's it for now from . . .

11 comments:

  1. Busy, busy, busy! Vacations have a way of multiplying things that need to be done after they're over. I had to laugh about the shop vac, I can relate! Dan finally made a super long extension hose for his, so he can leave the vac outside and run the hose through the door when he cleans out the stoves.

    Congratulations to Poppy on her Blue! I remember her puppy days, when it seemed like blue ribbons were just pie in the sky. :)

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    1. Leigh, I even begged Rick not to vacuum the ash because I knew from experience what would happen! How clever Dan is, as always. I'll have to mention that idea to Rick. Yes, Poppy was a 'wild child' (still is, in many ways); but she is also very smart.

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  2. As someone who has also experienced the explosion of ash from a shop vac I can highly commiserate. Poppy did wonderful and great job keeping things together with the last minute trip over the Pacific.

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    1. Since this is not the first time, I was especially exasperated as I BEGGED him not to use the shop vac....

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  3. Oh no . . . that reminds me of when my contractor jackhammered the basement floor and missed covered ONE vent. My entire living room was covered in construction dust. Truth be told, I still find bits of it here and there - but thankfully mostly in the basement. Lance looks so thin . . . I'm right with you in anticipating the sadness - I feel like I know him because I've been reading your blog for so long . . . I hope work stuff settles down for you soon.

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    1. Our hardwood floor really needs to be refinished, but I've heard it is a similarly messy project (all that sanding!) so I'm not pushing for it. Thank you for sharing my sadness.

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  4. Oh no. Heart break. I have been through this so many times with pets we have loved over our 58 years of marriage. Don’t let him linger too long if he is uncomfortable and not curable. In the end, it is what is kindest for the animal - no matter how heart breaking it is for the owner.

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  5. I'm so sorry to hear of Lance's decline. That is heartbreaking. Keeping you both in my thoughts.

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  6. Thank you, Elaine and Denise. I've had Lance for 14 years, and we have had a lot of experiences together. He has gotten a harder shake than many in the health department, what with horsey 'asthma' and 'diabetes' as well as arthritis in his neck and S/I; now this. 😢

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  7. M, so sorry to hear about Lance. You’ve gone through a lot with him, tough decision and never easy to make. I do know you’ve been a wonderful “mom”!

    I have gone through your trip pics, so beautiful: flowers, birds, scenery, turtles and interesting foods. Thought the downed tree’s red wood would have made a beautiful bowl / project for Rick.
    Dee

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    1. Oh yes, Dee; he lusted after that one! If we'd just thought to pack a chainsaw.... 😉 And thanks for sharing my sadness over Lance; I know you know.

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